Saturday, 28 January 2012

So, life.

A 50th birthday and my Grandad's funeral in one weekend;  leaving me reeling with mixed emotions. Flying high in the whoosh of a ceilidh, hysterically laughing, blinking away tears during honest, heart wrenching speeches. Feeling full of love for my lovely auntie.


My auntie; the Birthday girl. Rocking 50. 

Me, ceilidhing, unimpressed, apparently!



Then the funeral. Hearing the stories of my Pompa's life; his determination to woo my nanna, and build his business from scratch, in having five children when they really couldn't afford it (!) How he wove music into the very fabric of my family. Old ladies with purple hair, long hugs, old wrinkly hands squeezing mine. Hearing his best friend's respect for him and his heart- breaking grief. Story after story, open mic style, of his life from so many people that loved him.



Leaving me feeling sad and happy and incredibly grateful all at once.

A couple of my Grandad's favourite pieces of  music, played at his funeral. Pretty beautiful.


Chorus of the Hebrew Slaves from Giuseppe Verdi's "Nabucco."
Sung by the Westminster Choir directed by John Finlay with the NBC Symphony Orchestra conducted by Arturo Toscanini. Recorded for January 31, 1943 NBC Radio broadcast.


1950 recording of The Pearl Fishers Duet sung by Jussi Björling and Robert Merrill. Conducted by Renato Cellini leading the RCA Victor Symphony Orchestra.



9 comments:

  1. Light and love to you and your family, your bump (my Hubby's favourite term for a pregnant belly!) and your emotions... I hope that time will be the cotton wool you need right now. XX

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  2. Your auntie looks very glam for 50 + love the guy with the accordian. Sorry about your Pompa, lots of love to you Hannah x

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  3. My heart goes out to you Hannah, it's sounds like you had an emotional roller coaster of a weekend.

    I'm so sorry about your Pompa and hope this weekend has been a little calmer for you.

    Kim X

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  4. I'm so sorry to hear about your grandfather. So much emotions in one weekend. I listen to Jussi Björling and Robert Merril right now...beautiful. (Jussi was Swedish, like me).

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  5. Im so sorry you've lost your pompa, it looks like a marvellous celebration that you had and how amazing to hear all those stories. Phew mega emotional indeed. Also your auntie is MEGA rockin' 50. Those are some gooooood genes you've got to look forward to there. Lots o luf. *s*

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  6. Life moves at such a pace, and throws so much at us. Your auntie is clearly loved, and your Pompa clear was (and is) too. Those stories, bits of him in people's hearts - that is his legacy. That and this beautiful post, you, and the next generation of his family you're soon to add.

    One of the things I love about you is that you appreciate the good things in everyone, and take time to reflect oh how youre relationships affect who you are. Maybe that is his legacy too.

    lots of love xxx

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  7. Oh Hannah... that is a lot of emotion to take in at once. (We had a funeral and our wedding in the space of 3 days so I know the weirdness that is feeling really sad and really happy all at once.) Your Pompa sounds like he was an amazing man xxx

    p.s. you ceilidhing, love - and your aunt is gorgeous, good genes there!

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  8. Your auntie looks amazing! And I'm so sorry to hear about your Grandad. Life has a funny way of throwing lots of things at us at once, doesn't it?

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  9. Oh, I'm welling up, what a lovely post!

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